Thoughts on parenting

I have come to the conclusion that this a quiet time of growth and preparation in my spiritual life and in the life of our family. I am not feeling particularly convicted or challenged. I don't feel that God is asking me to do more that I am now. Life does not have to be hard and stressful and heavy in order for it to be meaningful or for me to know I am in God's will. Not to say that my life is butterflies and sunshine all the time, but there have certainly been harder times. More responsibilities, heavier burdens. I have had those times and will have them again. For now, I am raising a child and will soon have another to raise. The most important time in their lives is before Chad and me. This is when we instill values and develop character. It is quiet work. Every parent does it, day in and out- even if they are not trying to. I want to instill values on purpose. I want to know what we are teaching them and model and instill specific values intentionally. They will surely learn something- I want to make sure it is what I WANT them to learn- that is true and right. Life is complicated. They need a good foundation if they are to be successful. I think God has cleared my mind, my time and my heart- so that I can be fully present for that task. Now, it is up to me to recognize and take advantage of this time God has placed before me. *****Of course I cannot post without some type of Ella update. She had a well baby check today. She is STILL not 20 pounds. 19.25- A-L-M-O-S-T there!! She is growing- at her own little pace. She is 31" tall- still looks like she is taking after her Auntie Shan- tall and slim! Her ears are still icky. Tubes go in tomorrow morning-hopefully early. Update to follow. . .